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jlc071903:

Did your MFM say anything about steriod shots or lung maturation? B/c I hate to tell you this, but you're still going to be looking at some serious NICU time, it's not OKAY for a baby to be born until it is term. Your MFM sounds like an idiot. It's not okay for a baby to come before term, regardless he is still going to struggle and trust me that's the last thing you want to watch your baby do...struggle to breathe, and basically LIVE. You haven't' worked this hard on BR to get up and start moving now. Once you're 36 weeks, go out and about, until then stay at home OR get a wheel chair and even then don't over do it.

in response to your comment on my post: thanks so much for your concern. As a matter of fact yes I did have the steriods shots already. I been on top of my game and so have my doctors. I just don't see the need to post every detail. As for my Dr being an idiot I highly disagree with you especially since your not familiar with my medical history. For I thank God 1st then my Dr.'s because they have given me the best of care and saved my lil guy's life. Of course neither my OB or MFM are routing for my LO to be born now. They want me to say on bed rest and go as far as possible. But if it were to happen they are very optimistic that my LO is doing well is very healthy that with todays great technology he will pull through. Of course if his born now he'd be in NICU that was told to me by my Dr yesterday and its only common sense, but like I said I don't sit here and type every detail. I have had one of the best MFM in So.Cal I have not yet to distrust him nor feel any medical neglect from his part. He his a highly recommended Dr. By his patents and OB's. So I thank you for you concern but all info you provided I already have been inform my m doctors. After having a rescue cerclage at 22 wks with a bulgging bag and being told I only had a 50/50 chance and if my lil guy was to be born then his chances of survival where slim to none I praise God I've got this far. And that my Dr.'s have been great every step of the way both on the same page and never second guessing themselves. Now to be given good and positive news after being on pins and needles with fear of some thing going wrong its great to know that I and LO will make it, and soon hold him and love him every day of my life!