I find that while I am in the 2ww I lurk over on 1st Tri A LOT, because I just know that I will be joining them!! But immediately after I get my period or a BFN, I don't even like to see it listed as a board, and I stay as far away as I possibly can!
What do you ladies do?
Re: What are your Bump habits?
Blog
I really just stick to this board right now . . . I mostly lurk and occaisionally post my own things. I am sure once I eventually get that BFP (which I have to have faith I will) I will venture out to other boards. However, I am afraid to jinx myself.
It is similar to when I was ready to get engaged but he hadn't popped the question yet I wouldnt really look @ bridal magazines or come on the knot.com
I am not sure I can take it again, either. It is so hard to not say "just wait" when they are talking about how their baby will STTN at 3 days old and they will start solids at 2 weeks because their mom did and you spoil a baby by holding it too much. I can't take it. I also hated when people said "just wait" while I was pregnant, so it might be best to stay away.
I really only look at this board and sometimes lurk on TTTC. I peeked in at 1stTri once and it just hurt too much to read the posts so I stay away now.
What is BNOTB?
I'm with you. I have 12-24 up most days but am finding this board much nicer to play on! The drama on there seems forced lately.
I do this too. I have GOT to quit!
Babies Not On The Brain. It's over on the nest. I stated posting over there when it first start about 2 years ago.
after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
IT'S A GIRL!
#2 EDD 2/5/13 dx with anti-BIG E antibody, seeing a MFM
I don't take one single minute for granted.
BFP 3/28/16 (EDD 12/9/16) * Chemical pregnancy
ME: 40 yrs.old
DH: 41 yrs.old
DD: 5 yrs.
I lurk here and TTTC for the most part although I don't have a lot of useful stuff to post on TTTC because we haven't had our first RE appt yet (and may not for a couple months- insurance snafu). It helps to spend some forum time around people who've been trying as long or longer than I have and see what various treatment cycles might be like.
I also tend to post during the late shift- 9pm central to midnight or 1am long after most girls have gone to bed.
I like to hit baby names when I want to feel useful- I'll go through and hit every clicky poll. I go to first tri and my due birth month (or the one before if, like this cycle, my due birth month board isn't active yet) during the 2ww and tend to avoid them pre-o.... and I spent time lurking on Nurseries pretty much all the time but it isn't as active as my home boards.
Friends for 15 years. Married 8. TTC since January 2009
2010 Diagnosis: Anovulation and Severe MFI
2011 Treatment:
IVF w/ICSI #1 Antagonist: 2 blasts - c/p - BFN 04.22
FET #1: 1 blast/1 early blast - BFP 06.22 - m/c 06.30 @6w0d
07-11 RPL: MTHFR C677T Heterozygous & Slightly elevated ACLA IgM
FET #2: 1 morula - BFN: 9.02
January '12: IVF #2
Started BCP and Metformin (New!) 12-14 for stimming in January
Dum spiro, spero.
?SAIF/PAIF/PgAL/PAL always welcome?