both of those are too much. You need to know where to go and when they want you to come to the hospital. Schedule a L&D tour and call it a day.
"Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. At the outside, babies, you've got about a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies. God damn it, you've got to be kind."
- Kurt Vonnegut
both of those are too much. You need to know where to go and when they want you to come to the hospital. Schedule a L&D tour and call it a day.
You say "both" which implies 2, but I put that 3rd option in there for a reson...some people may thing classes are over the top, which is why its there.
Yes, I totally agree with erbear!!!!! They will tell you exactly what you need to do and when you need to do it. No need for classes, at all!! An L&D tour is really all you will need, so you know where to go and what to expect from the hospital.
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We're doing the two weekend sessions due to work schedules. Along with labor methods and such, the birthing center tour and an infant care class are included in all that.
We're probably doing the 6 week because it's covered by our insurance and it ends with basic baby care. DH couldn't tell you what supplies he'd need or how to go about changing a diaper. He's depending on me and although I have a lot of childcare experience, that's just following the instructions left by the parents. I'm going to be new to this too and while I'm not really worried I don't need 2 helpless people to deal with at 2am. The only thing DH "knows" about babies is something he heard (from another guy at work) about shoes not being good for babies feet. He doesn't even want them for pictures. We have a long way to go.
I like this! DH thinks that if we do extended courses that he would "brain dump" the first 4 weeks by the the time the baby is here... kinda scary to think about actually.
The best advice I recieved was its not worth it. Every mother I talked to that took them said they were scared outta their minds with classes (Everything was doom and gloom) and later on felt like a looser if they were not able to breast feed, because classes put a big emphasis on breast feeding. Im sure there is exception to the rule and some amazing classes out there, but I plan on lisening to the wisdom of others and having my mom in the room with me to keep DH from fainting and supporting me, as long as she stays shoulder high. Good Luck to all of you.
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You say "both" which implies 2, but I put that 3rd option in there for a reson...some people may thing classes are over the top, which is why its there.
the 4th is for the lulz.
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Mine is 8 weeks of 2 hour classes. They include:
First 4 classes are deep relaxation for birthing
Next class is pain management options
Next class is Newborn care
Next class is breastfeeding
Last class is postpartum.
I like this! DH thinks that if we do extended courses that he would "brain dump" the first 4 weeks by the the time the baby is here... kinda scary to think about actually.
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