feel like i got punched in the gut...

classybride143

I have been having a rough couple of days...stressed and depressed. A lot of girls I was pg with the first time are pg again...was feeling much better over the weekend until sunday when I found out another girl I was pg with is again pg. I felt like I was punched in the gut when the announcement was made. Why do I feel like this?? I feel so selfish but I can't help it. My period is due this week...it is going to be a looong one...

Milliways

Don't beat yourself up too bad for feeling the way you do. Sometimes it is better to be a bit selfish for a moment, get it out your of your system and then move on with being happy for that person.

Your son has the most amazing eyes! Future. Heartbreaker.

 

Ya Never Know

classybride143:

I have been having a rough couple of days...stressed and depressed. A lot of girls I was pg with the first time are pg again...was feeling much better over the weekend until sunday when I found out another girl I was pg with is again pg. I felt like I was punched in the gut when the announcement was made. Why do I feel like this?? I feel so selfish but I can't help it. My period is due this week...it is going to be a looong one...

 

It can be hard to watch everyone else around you get pg. Everyone but me in my circle of friends, is pg, or has kids, and has never experienced a day of IF or TTTC in their lives. As happy as I am that it's so easy for them, I have these feelings too. I don't think you're being selfish, you just have to feel what you need to feel sometimes.

 

brits4

I know how you feel!  A lot of the girls I was pregnant with the first time are pregnant again and having second baby showers and decorating rooms.  I feel selfish at times as well! 

flypink

sorry you're having a rough time. it is pretty hard. i was in your shoes in january when my SIL announced her pg. i was rather annoyed and jealous. then she had a m/c and i was devistated. now when i hear of a new pregnancy i don't get jealous or sad. i'm just thankful for my beautiful baby girl and pray for another miracle.