Don't feel like myself....

sands42 · March 2010

I am about 14 weeks pregnant. I have just been feeling weird. I feel kind of depressed even. I don't want to do anything- I even feel weird hanging around my friends and family. Like I'm awkward and quiet, when normally I'm silly and fun. My friends have commented that I'm acting weird and that I'm kind of a bummer to hang out with. I hate being like this and feeling like this- and I'm not sure why it's happening or how to change it. Any advice for me ??

Jean&Crys · March 2010

This could be caused by your body going through so many changes right now. I know I'm only starting to get my energy back now and I'm 19 weeks.

If it really concerns you maybe call your OB?

evadizzle · March 2010

same here. I was always bubbly and talkative and since I've been pregnant I've been so quiet. A lot of my friends are still living the bachelor lifestyle and I can't hang loose like them. I went to a housewarming party and I sat on the couch the whole time, everyone else was having a good time (drinking and smoking of course) I don't want to hang out at friends houses because all they do is drink and get drunk. My other friends that have kids are different but they are to busy being parents that they never have time to hang out. catch 22 I guess.

Hang in there, I guess all you can do is have girly days when you and your girls can get together to get mani/pedi's and go to the movies. Thats what I'm doing. avoiding the group at friends situation.

dori1678 · March 2010

I agree with the PP. If you think you need help, call your OB. Otherwise, it's normal... pregnancy will cause a lot to change.

jlslaugh · March 2010

I would talk to your dr about this. Its probably just the hormones overwhelming your body and getting out of whack but you should probably address it before it gets worse. There are medications that are safe to take while pregnant as well.

PlainandTall · March 2010

Bring it up to your OB if you are concerned about it. I had to start taking some meds for my mood this pregnancy and I don't think it's that uncommon... PP depression gets tons of press- but I think a lot of women have problems even at the start of a pregnancy. My OB was so kind and understanding and it took such a load off just to talk to someone about it... I'm not saying you need meds... I'm just thinking talking to someone would be a start. >hugs to you<

Wendy525 · March 2010

I think it's pretty common to be on the "emotional rollercoaster". You should discuss any concerns with your OB, but take comfort that it is common and probably caused by hormones and might even pass as you get further along. Take care!

Halen0804 · March 2010

It could be horomones or the overwhelming realization that life is going to change or a combination of the two. Like all the PP's said, if you are not sure, talk to your dr. I find that I go through phases like this once a month (almost like PMS)