when you feed LO at night do you unswaddle him?
I usually unswaddle him to feed on one side and let him stretch, then change his diaper (so he has to be unswaddled anyway). Then I usually reswaddle him and feed him on the other side. Typically re-swaddling will agitate him a bit so feeding him calms him down and allows him to drift off to sleep. Sometimes it can be a challenge to get him to eat at all after swaddling though - he can just fall back asleep - so if he didn't eat well on the one side I'll put off the swaddle until half way through the second side.
It's quite the process
When he wakes up, I unswaddle him, change his diaper, reswaddle, and then feed. He'll usually drift back to sleep when he's done (he nurses on both sides).
When he was littler, I left him unswaddled until the end. He had a hard enough time staying awake to eat without the comfiness of swaddling!
unswaddle... it's too bulky maybe? she struggles more & also need to wake to keep her feeding long enough