T&P for us please, (BF related)
So most of you know the backstory with the spermdonor. The last 3 times DS has had to go for the weekend he has been bouncing off the wall crazy, and mean. Friday my mom was going to drop him off at the neutral exchange. So he was with her being like this. My dad called to talk to him on the phone (they are extremely close to DS) my dad got back on the phone with my mom and told her that he thought something was bothering him.
So when she asked what was wrong, he went on about how mean they are to him. They kick, punch and pinch him. They constantly scream at him. He said no one listens to him and he still has to go there. Problem is, this is the first time he really opened up about it. My mom told him there are other kids this happens to and he isn't the only one. Then he says "they treat my cousins that way too" "they are also trying to find a way to get away from there"
My mom told him that I will take him back to someone to talk to and he has to tell them. He has been in counseling off and on for a long time, he just won't say anything. She asked him why he hasn't really said any of this before and he said "because they always told me that they can hear me anytime I talk" He said he doesn't believe it anymore. We have been told by our lawyer that we really need him to tell a counselor because they are really the only ones that will be able to do anything about this. These people are so manipulative and they know just when to stop so they don't leave any marks. So here we go, I am hoping that this time something will actually happen and Nathan can lead a normal, happy life and all of this stuff these sick people do to him can be stopped. Sorry this is so long, I am on a rampage!
Re: T&P for us please, (BF related)
*hugs for Nathan* Yes, he definitely needs to tell a counselor... they are mandated reporters and by law, will need to talk - if he is being hurt... Right now he is being threatened emotionally (seriously telling a child that they can "hear" him? that is horrible)
Good luck KNMommy... My heart hurts every time I read these posts. Im so sorry
This. Having my SKIDS at a counselor where the things that happened to them came out to a mandated reporter has been one of the best things that could have happened. They feel better having told someone they can trust...and things that would be "heresay" are now documented officially.
My SD went to a counselor as soon as we got custody of her last year. She wouldn't talk to the first one we took her too. So after 6 visits we found a new one that she loved. Both counselors needed a copy of our CO and our attorney and GAL's name to report to in addition to us. She was bound by the law to notify the attorney's of anything out of the ordinary.
GL to you and Nathan!!!
This is her DS, not her step. It's heartbreaking what he goes through
Praying for you. Poor Nathan, it makes me so sad. Your strength amazes me.