I left DH tonight. After weeks of unrelentless fighting then not speaking then acting like everything was only to repeat a day later I simply gave up.
DS & I are staying at my parent's tonight then tomorrow I'll formulate a game plan. I did a few things "right" over the past week before this...changed account passwords, copied all financial/important documents, made sure there was duplicates of everything DS needed at my parent's, etc....I just didn't fully realize how sick I would feel as I sit here thinking about the future.
Re: Joining the ranks...
That was me about 1.5 years ago. I sat in this very chair typing something similar on a message board, scared out of my mind and wanting it to be a dream. Today I am busier than ever with 2 little ones, but I can rest my head every night in peace--not worrying if XH is doing something he shouldn't or if I'm being a great wife. I only have to answer to me now.
Ain't nothin' better than a FB status bash! Ugh - immaturity at its best.
I updated my fb status when left me... In all honesty, I was pissed and hurt like hell that he had left us. Even more so that we didn't have the fighting and arguing going on, and I was in complete shock!
At any rate, this board has lots of good support. You have to do whats right for you and lo, and if this is it, then more power to you!