Am I crazy, or was there a post here titled something like, "taking care of other's children?" It was something about fostering/adopting the poster's sister's child.
While the language was off-putting, I was interested in seeing how it played out, because the OP was trying to figure out whether or not she should take in her sister's child. To me, it seemed as though she was wondering how much input her sister would have, the ramifications of inviting her sister's life choices into her family, and the differences between fostering and adopting.
Did the post devolve?