After 18 months of crap with them we are truly done. They called us at the beginning of February and ACTED like we were coming in to discuss the program.
Well we walked in excited and thinking FINALLY it's happening but they slammed the door in our faces again. And we were stupid enough to think it was going to be fine?!
Apparently, even after they approved our home study, they want my husband to get counseling over his relationships with his family. My husband always "gives" and they always "take". The agency said we are the "perfect adoptive couple" but they want him to get counseled over his losses. But they don't mean just 5 or 6 sessions ... they were saying this may take a year or more. They even brought up cutting ties with his family and distancing ourselves since we live 30 mins apart. Yes, the word moving was even brought up!
This is NUTS! My husband looked at them and said you just want everyone to be perfect?! He also made the comment, which I was about to make, that at first they wanted us to try and have more contact with them b/c in adoption they really want both sides of the families involved, yet now they want us to cut all ties with them?!
Needless to say, we are cutting ties with them. We can't take the ups and downs. I said doesn't us already being parents show you anything at all? We've proved our family is healthy and so is our daughter.
I am just so frustrated right now ...