Just need to talk

jaimerae727

Hi all...

I just joined the bump last week after finding out that we were expecting our first baby. This would be my third but his first to clarify.

On Friday I went to the doc and found out that as fast as I knew I was pregnant I had miscarried and needed to have the D & C done. I was only 6 weeks along. It happened so fast. I woke up pregnant and then 2 hours later I wasn't anymore.

I don't know what to feel or say or do. I feel like I let my love down and his family. We all wanted this baby so badly and him and I wanted to add to the family that I have already. I have been told over the last 2 days that we could try again just stop being upset and it was only 6 weeks so it will be fine and my favorite is maybe it was supposed to be this way. How was it supposed to be this way? Who is supposed to lose a child?

 Anyway, I just needed to vent. I feel very alone and very empty. Thanks for listening (reading) and God Bless all of you to have safe and healthy pregnancies and babies.

Hopefully soon we can join the bump again and have our own blessing...

Jaime

Amy&Rich

I am sorry for your lose.  We had a scare in the beginning and the best advise I was given is that no one can tell you what you are supposed to feel.  Hang in there.

bella9280

im soo sorry for your loss, i do wish you the best of luck. just because your not pregnant doesnt mean you can't stay on the board, there are also some boards you may want to read up on! best of luck thinking of you

funkyfrog

I also had a miscarriage this past summer and now I'm 16 weeks pregnant. It was so hard in the beginning... but I kept telling yourself that something wasn't right with the pregnancy and it was meant to happen early.   The good thing is you know you can get pregnant!     Stay positive!