2nd Trimester

Insulted over my morning coffee, boo!

I was in Panera fixing my coffee this morning. A little girl pointed out to her mother that I'm going to have a baby. The woman told her yep, I was huge like that with you too. I was too surprised by her blatant rudeness to say anything. My BMI is still in the healthy/average range for a non-pregnant woman my height and I can still wear most of my pre-pregnancy pants. I'm growing another human, for crying out loud! I'm just don't understand how she felt like that comment was appropriate or necessary.

Okay, rant over. I'm taking my huge self for a haircut and color so I can feel a little less repulsive.imageimage" mce_src="image" align="bottom">

Re: Insulted over my morning coffee, boo!

  • apparently that lady is crazy, cause you are NOT huge.  You have an awesome bump!
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  • you're still tiny!!! definitely not even close to what i would call huge!!!
  • Your tiny! how in the world did she think you were HUGE? how rude!
  • She's nuts! You look great.
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  • Was she blind? You're showing but by no means huge! Btw your top is super cute :)

  • You aren't huge at all! Crazy lady. 

    Cute shirt, BTW.

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  • Wow, I would have shushed my child because you hardly look pregnant at all! Honestly if I saw you walking down the street I probably wouldn't know yet.
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  • If your bump pics are current, um...is she blind? You are not huge, but absolutely adorable! Were you wearing a big coat--maybe that was it? :o) (I look huge in my winter coat.) But yeah, how rude! :oP None of her business to say that.

    *sigh* Why do people not respect boundaries, let alone for us mommas to be?

  • My belly is much better and I'm behind by a couple weeks. People point at my belly all the time and ask how far a long I am. I was a bit offended when a co worker said "WOW you're HUGE!" but realized she's bigger then me and she's not even pregnant. That made me feel better. Lol.

    PS Your belly is very cute!

  • Thanks ladies! The pic is current and the shirt is from Motherhood. I just had on a tank top with a zip up hoodie, unzipped. On the up side my hair stylist made a complete opposite comment when I had my hair done this afternoon, so that helped. She thought I was at the beginning of my pregnancy! I hadn't seen her in months, so she didn't know I was pregnant before today.
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