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Taking a break

JilliesmommaJilliesmomma
in TTC after 35

This month is a bust, again.  DH is too stressed out to ttc right now so I am taking a break.  I just can't obsess over it.  Two people in my life have just announced they are pg with baby #3 and I can't even get #2 going so I need to just stop thinking about it for a while. Maybe I can come back next month or two.  It breaks my heart, but I can't take the constant reminder that we are not really ttc. 

In advance, congrats to everyone graduating and good luck to those who are still ttc.  

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Re: Taking a break

  • joyfulnaturejoyfulnature

    We will miss you, Jillies. But breaks are sometimes a necessity.

    See you later.

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  • MAH123MAH123
    Good Luck and hope you get some much needed relaxation!  
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  • mjencookmjencook

    Good luck to you....I've only just joined, but really see how warm and sincere people are (including you!).

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  • taratrutaratru member

    Good luck, Jillie.  I hope it all works out for you soon.

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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    {{{Hugs}}}  Come back when you feel up to it again.
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  • redsoxbonoredsoxbono

    I'm sorry this cycle didn't work out for you.  We will miss you. You will always be welcome.

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  • 09Bride0309Bride03
    Take your time and come back when you are ready.  It is really really hard when people around you announce pregnancies! 
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  • ToshaGirlToshaGirl member
    Sometimes a break is a good idea. Take care of yourself.
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  • jandjayjandjay member

    Good luck, come back soon.

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  • beth0874beth0874

    Good luck.  Enjoy the break.  We will miss you.

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  • DMD1029DMD1029 member
    I'm so sorry that this cycle didn't work and that you guys are so stressed out, but a break may do you both a world of good. Hopefully, you'll be one of the lucky ones who gets pg on a break!
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  • lisa&lairdlisa&laird

    awwww Jillie......*hugs* to you sweetie.  This journey can be so exhausting.  It is great that you know when to slow it down a little.  Like the other ladies have said, a break will do wonders for you both.  Look after yourself.  Take some time to do things that you like. Pamper yourself!!  Don't worry at all.....we will keep your seat warm for you!!  *more hugs*

    Lisa

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