to pay for IVF? My husband is thinking about borrowing or cashing out his 401(k) to pay for IVF with DE.
Sorry I've been MIA. Work has been super busy but I want to tell you all about my visit with inlaws this past weekend. It was very unnerving.
We visited his folks on Sunday and the visit was going well until she kept digging for info when there was absolutely no update. She knows we're saving up for the procedure so it's not like it was news to her but she started in on about giving us financial help mostly because she wants a grandchild right now. They wouldn't be involved if we had a baby the traditional way, why would we want them to buy us genetic material so I can become pregnant?
His mother's mentality is so uncaring. All she does is talk about how much she wants a grandchild and the fact is we're getting too old so we have to hurry our decision based on that she may die soon. She's not nurturing at all.
This is the best but she questioned if I had known about my fertility issues before we got married. I made a comment about my eye condition being hereditary and that's when she brought that I knew I couldn't have kids then. I corrected her and told her I wasn't diagnosed till 2 years ago with POF so I had no way knowing I couldn't have kids.