If you weren't looking for a job, how much above your current salary would you expect someone to offer you to switch for a lateral or the next step up? I just got a job offer today and I am a little shocked that this company thought it would entice me to switch firms. There's a big disconnect between the benies I'm getting now and what they're offering. And, the salary is not going to drastically improve my life, as the recruited lead me to believe when he talked to me about the job. I did get my WAH day, but I'm still working that day. If they want to pay me for PT, then I will take that day off. But, maybe I'm way off base here???>?
Re: Job offer ???
I don't think I was offered enough to make it worth my time to move and lose benies. But, I'm wondering if I'm off base. So, I guess I'm asking that if you were in the same situation, how much would someone have to offer you over what you make now to make you want to move.
He really has been shady through the whole process. At one point, I had a feeling that this is where the offer was going to come in and I told him I wasn't interested. He kept pushing, so I continued ... only to end up in the same place. Ugh! I am talking to him in an hour and telling him that I'm not taking that offer. I'm pretty put off now, though. They'd have to almost double the increase for me to want to move, which I'd already explained to the recruiter.
Since I've had kids, I've found almost every dealing with a recruiter to be really annoying. I've actually had all of my luck finding jobs either on my own or through networking. And that's helped me find jobs that recruiters don't even know about - and believe me they get ticked by that. But I would just bottom line it and say 'I need XX to leave. If they can give it, great. If not, then tell them thank you for the offer but I have to decline.' I'm sure that's what you've been doing - the recruiters just don't get it.
Now he's quibbling with me over $1000. I gave him the number and he says "ok, but if they offer XXXXX - $1000 I will say no." I told him to just call me, but he won't take that as my answer. I'm SO done with him.
DD -- 5YO
DS -- 3YO