no more sexy time....

melisgood

Hey Girls,

So, it's been 2 weeks now since DH and I have had sexy time.  He said it's just too hard now that I'm so big and said something about how it's weird now because it's like a baby's going to come out of there soon.  I've been sad and just wondering if anyone else is experiencing this.  He doesn't want to do anything until after baby is here....sigh.

 

cutekissis101

I would just put on porn and masturbate in front of him and see if that will change his mind :P

lindsaynjason

It's been a good 2-3 weeks for us too.  I haven't outright asked about it, but I'm about to that point.  I'm not sure that I will be ok with the fact that we might be "done" until at least 6 weeks PP. 

greengirl0909

You might try reminding him that once the baby does actually "come out of there" it's going to be 6 or so solid weeks before you're allowed to do it again! That might be motivating. 

jennifershamrock

Last time we did was a few weeks ago and afterward I had a bunch of BH.  We are waiting.  I can't wait for that 6 w pp appt.

blissfully_caffeinated

Yep. I'm right there with you. My SO is officially freaked out by it and I don't expect we'll do anything between now and delivery. Grrr. Why does he have self control?

rysmomsn2banother

Man im sorry! I wish my DH would BACK OFF!! He thinks he needs sexy time 2x a day!

KKleese

I though we were pretty much there and it was very depressing but I was able to get him in the mood this weekend.  The last time we tried before that it was very weird because LO kept moving around and he could feel him.  This time LO stayed put and we were able to have good sex again!  I can not get into the positions I used to though so it wasn't as good for me.  I'm just happy we did it though!  It had been almost 2 months!