Im really having an issue on what to do after #2 comes, and I figured this is the best board to ask. I trying to decide..or rather convince DH on why it would be better for my sanity and financially for me to stay at home. here are some facts:
i did the math, I will be ONLY depositing $20/day, since the rest will go to babysitting and gas to and from work.
i would lose benefits.
currently i work 8-7, getting home anywhere from 6:30 to 9 pm, 4-5 days a week. DH is a fireman so hes home MAYBE 2 or 3 days a week.
(typing one handed, sry) the way i think about it, is ill get home at 7 or 8ish every night, and have to immediatly feed, change bathe 2 babies, and somehow find time to bathe/feed/rest myself and take care of 2 dogs.i figured i can find hlth ins on the internet for emergenies and dentist stuff (putting me on DHs is out of the question, ridiculous cost).
im currently brainstorming ideas to make a little money while at home, without having to get a sitter.
ANY help is greatly appreciated!! tia!!
is it obvious which one i want to do?? lol...i dont know if i can mentally handle working f/t with 2 babies. i was