NBR-Ever been a "pitty bridesmaid"?

Monkeybuttwhat

I think that is all pretty valid. You need to know the details. Can you call one of the other bridesmaids?

Kalsbabymama

I guess you have to pick an evil with brides, overplanning control freaks or uncommunicative half friends. That sucks.

heather_09_15_07

It's pity. And guess what? The wedding is not about YOU.

Erin0806

JMO, but if you are a bridesmaid, I think it's your job to be involved enough to figure those things out. Your her "maid", not the other way around.

amyelzbth82

I don't really know any of them....all I know is that they all are getting ready together that morning.  All but me.  I'm sooo being a baby right now.  But I mean WTF I wasn't even asked. 

amyelzbth82

Heather, I'm totally aware of this.  I just got married myself.  It's just that I need to f*ing know what time to be places and where everything is so I can get directions.  I hate not knowing where I'm driving..I suck at it!

amyelzbth82

Oh and Erin, have called, texted, emailed, and called her mom.  No response.

heather_09_15_07

Maybe you should just ask. She may have thought she told everyone.

amyelzbth82

You're right.  I just wish I could get ahold of someone! UGH!

sweetfrogy

Do you have all the contact info for the MOH/bridesmaids from the shower?  Not really the time to be bothering the bride about all of this.  I would contact someone else in the wedding party.