achase123

skimberlin

So I told you about my situation and dating again. I was curious if you would mind sharing about how things came about/ are going for you. My some what bf and I had to have a big talk last night so it's been on my mind, and I saw in your post that you were dating also.

achase123

Sure, no problem.  I have been on a few dates.  I was seeing a guy for a few weeks but he broke it off because we both have so much going on and I told him something personal that he couldn't handle.  I have been talking to another guy now and we are going out next weekend.  I don't have much time for dating but if the right guy comes along I will be willing to date.  It's hard to "play the field" with a baby and I don't want men in and out of DS' life.  I personally think it is much easier to be in a relationship and just hang out at the house after DS goes to sleep (which is what the last guy and I did mostly and it worked out well).

achase123

skimberlin:

So I told you about my situation and dating again. I was curious if you would mind sharing about how things came about/ are going for you. My some what bf and I had to have a big talk last night so it's been on my mind, and I saw in your post that you were dating also.

How did the talk go?

skimberlin

I know what you mean about not wanting men in and out of dc life. It's so scary! I hope next weekend goes well for you! I thought it went well. He has more feelings than I thought for us, which is great. I was almost ready to say lets just stop this now, but I think it's going to be ok. I'm just so scared to be hurt and I feel like I have let him get away with saying he wants to take things slow to much. when he really just wants to take certain things slow. He agreed and we will see how things go.

r9stedt

I've been dating too.  Shhhhhh!  Don't tell!     

ladyaylena

dating??? what's this DATING thing you speak of???  *mumbles off* Must be some sort of new trick or something.... 

skimberlin

You all are too funny!