Co-sleep, formula feed, use tv as a babysitter while I do chores.....the list goes on and on. I always tell DH "We were such great parents before we had kids".
Cosleep was a huge one for me, but it was the only way DS would sleep for the first two months of his life.
Make special meals for my child. I SO judged one of my BFFs who has two incredibly picky kids, and I swear it's karma that my DS is just as picky as they are. I asked for it. Anyway, I do make him special meals. They're all easy things to make so it's not inconvenient, but, still, I never thought I'd be doing it.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10) "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
I was so not going to feed my kids chicken nuggets and processed foods, I was going to make their baby food and excursively breast feed.
They would always be dressed to a T and be presentable when out in public (do you know how many times KR has gone to the store with a princess dress on and non matching shoes..)
Shout at them when they REALLY drive me crazy and use tv as a tool to make them nap during the day so I can get a few minutes to myself! #2 falls asleep to the Wiggles daily and when he does #1 turns on the Wii Fit Plus and will "work out" for an hour while I eat, make dinner and do chores
L-R: Liam (7), Eimhin (6) and Fionn (4)! (Irish names) Too busy to update the pics for now ...
Bribe with food. I swore I wouldn't do this, but now I have a constant supply of granola bars and lollipops as ammo against a public meltdown (and sometimes even at-home meltdowns).
Let my kids eat candy. Before we had kids my SIL wouldn't allow her kids to have candy except at Halloween and Christmas and I thought that was a great idea. Ummm...lasted until my first DD was maybe 8 months old before she had her first taste of chocolate! lol
Use the tv so I can get things done around the house.
Not spank. I honestly figured I'd be a super strict parent and do things like my parents did with me including spanking. So far, I just can't justify it. There are other ways to discipline and teach correct behavior. I'm much more laid back about stuff than I thought I'd be.
Enjoy breastfeeding. I decided to bf for financial reasons and really enjoyed it. I never expected to feel the way I did about it. I cried when she had to be supplemented at 2 mos and when I weaned her around 6 mos.
Re: Another bored poll...
Let the kids watch nonPBS television. I really was adamant about that one and can't really remember why I thought it was so important.
And HFCS was another one I was pretty serious about. I gave that up with the whole no gluten thing. It was just too much to worry about at that point.
- Bribe with food
- Watch Elmo (he annoys the beejesus out of me)
- spit on my finger to wipe off his face
And many, many, many more things
Bride with candy. Daily.
Have a 3 year old who is not pottytrained.
Formula feed (not that there is anything at all wrong with it, I just never thought I would. Ben is on almost 100% formula now)
Eat in front of the TV
Eat out as much
Buy things that DS doesn't need (I do this all the time. No wonder we have so much crap)
Cosleep was a huge one for me, but it was the only way DS would sleep for the first two months of his life.
Make special meals for my child. I SO judged one of my BFFs who has two incredibly picky kids, and I swear it's karma that my DS is just as picky as they are. I asked for it. Anyway, I do make him special meals. They're all easy things to make so it's not inconvenient, but, still, I never thought I'd be doing it.
Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
"Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
I wow. I have to tell on my self.
I was so not going to feed my kids chicken nuggets and processed foods, I was going to make their baby food and excursively breast feed.
They would always be dressed to a T and be presentable when out in public (do you know how many times KR has gone to the store with a princess dress on and non matching shoes..)
Lose my patience
eat in front of the tv
Sleep somewhere besides their bed (my ds slept in his swing for the first 5 months)
L-R: Liam (7), Eimhin (6) and Fionn (4)! (Irish names)
Too busy to update the pics for now ...
Use the tv so I can get things done around the house.
Not spank. I honestly figured I'd be a super strict parent and do things like my parents did with me including spanking. So far, I just can't justify it. There are other ways to discipline and teach correct behavior. I'm much more laid back about stuff than I thought I'd be.
I would definitely have to say the co-sleep thing and the TV-watching thing.
I have learned to say, "I will never say never"... in parenting