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OMG - I feel SO old

I was lurking on another board and a girl who's TTC has a siggy memorial to her mom who passed away.  This girls MOM was born the same year as me.  
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  • Yikes. I never thought about it like that. If I had gotten pregnant right out of high school, I could have an almost twenty year old.

    Okay, that's depressing!

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  • Yep, I know several girls who are TTC whose mother I could be.  Ugh - so depressing.

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  • Whoa. She must have had her daughter when she hit puberty. ; )
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  • Whoa. She must have had her daughter when she hit puberty.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Someone from my HS graduating class "friended" me on FB this week. She is a grandmother!!!  A grandmother!

    (I'm 38)

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  • Think of it this way...at least we were able to enjoy our 20s and for many of us, we've enjoyed most of our 30s.  Even knowing what I know now about IF, I don't think that I would have tried to get pg in my 20s.  In my early 30s, maybe.  But I think I'll keep my 20s just the way I had them! 
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    Someone from my HS graduating class "friended" me on FB this week. She is a grandmother!!!  A grandmother!

    (I'm 38)

    I've got one of those going on too.

  • I'm right there with you. Kids I babysat for have kids......
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  • Don't feel too bad.  That just means her mom had her when she was uber young.  My sister had her first kid at 18 and my younger brother is 5 years younger than her.  Just a few weeks ago I realized that it is ENTIRELY possible that my sister could have a grandkid before my brother has a child. 
     
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  • Monty, that sucks. But seriously the girl that TTC is she like 19?
  • Ugh, I hear you Monty - we just hired an intern who was born in 1990.

    1990! HOW could you be old enough to be in college and have a job?! When did this happen?!

    (Shakes cane in amazement)

    B/G twins!
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  • imagejuliannat:

    (Shakes cane in amazement)

     

    LOL  - I might just be the oldest on the board, but I'm glad I'm not alone.  :-) 

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  • I have a friend who is a grandmother as well.  And many FB friends who have kids graduating hs now.  Sigh.

    Sometimes it makes me sad, but then I realize I was in no way ready to have kids in my 20's, and I didn't even meet DH until 33 - and I wouldn't have it any other way.  :-)

    We just all better become moms ourselves soon!

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    Yikes. I never thought about it like that. If I had gotten pregnant right out of high school, I could have an almost twenty year old.

    Okay, that's depressing!

    DH's best friend got a girl pregnant when he was 15.  His daughter is going to be 23 this year!  His wife will be 31 in a couple of months. He's got an 18-month old baby & a 28-month old GRANDSON!

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