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"I will be ok"

k827k827
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I've been telling myself this for days now. Regardless of this IVF outcome I will be ok. My life will go on. I will still have my awesome husband..our home..our furbabies and my family. I will still have my friends. Life will go on. I may be broken for a moment but I've picked myself up from this before and I can do it again....

Thinking this way has really made me happy. I really feel today that I have let go of this. I can't make me embies stick and stay with us. I can't make this happen!!!

Now..I just hope I feel this exact way in 7 days.

TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
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  • cjdub13cjdub13
    Hugs! I keep reminding myself that I have a good life, a great Dh and support system, and as much as all of this sucks, I will be okay.  It is hard though.  I want to be a mom so bad it breaks my heart.
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  • njdcgirlnjdcgirl member

    I like your thoughts - I've been telling myself the same thing.  I feel very "zen" this cycle, I don't know how else to put it.  But, I think it's b/c I feel the same way. 

    GL to you - I know you can't control what will happen, but I'm still sending out tons of PPV to you!

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  • jcmayhewjcmayhew
    *fingers crossed for 7 days*  I'm glad you found peace because that sure is tough to do with IF
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  • DinaLINYDinaLINY

    very good mantra - I often tell myself the same thing. I am very lucky to have found DH, even though it was later in life. a lot of people don't have the kind of love that we do. we are fortunate in many other ways.

    I hate that we all even met - I hate that there is an IF board. But I take comfort in it all, just the same. 

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  • JackieMac824JackieMac824 member

    Thanks it helped me to read that - I will go on too - I have a good life and a husband I love - this is hard but life goes on.

    I wish you the best of luck and hope you get your BFP!!!

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  • SNB2BSNB2B
    ((hugs)). That is a great outlook. Try to hang on to that and hopefully you won't have to!
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  • newsbabynewsbaby
    That was nice. I am trying to adopt that mantra too. But it is so hard sometimes.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • mrshoppy_1231mrshoppy_1231
    That is such a good outlook, I'm going to borrow it from you!! GL and lots of PPV your way!
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member

    Thinking like this has really helped me too.

    I'm praying for a sticky BFP from you though :) 

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