Tonight

stellahav

I'd be willing to bet my dinner that my friend is announcing her pregnancy tonight since our whole group will be together.  I SO want to be happy for her.  But I'm terrified that I'll start crying.  These are my best friends, so I shouldn't be embarrassed, but I don't want to take away from her excitement. 

Part of me thinks that she would know better and at least have given me a heads up.  Another part knows that people don't always think things through like that.

Hope everybody has the most enjoyable evening possible.  Can't wait for next year!

michrocc

I'm so sorry.  You're absolutely right - it's common sense for her to give you a heads up but, in her newfound pg-induced glee, she might not.  It sucks but I've personally found that very few people IRL really consider what we've been through. 

It's going to be unbelievably hard, but if I were you, I'd put on my absolute best game face ever, smile through my tears, and keep the peace.  And then bolt afterward and weep into my steering wheel. 

babysantel

Best of luck.  Sounds like it will be a difficult night. 

MommaRed83

No matter what happens I hope that you get to enjoy being surrounded by friends and loved ones on this already hard way! Good Luck!!

MommaRed83

*day not way

butterfly843

Good luck tonight, hope you don't have to hear any pregnancy announcements tonight.