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Tell me I'm not a bad mommy!

Yesterday my LO wanted to nurse every hour, not even hungry, just wanted to comfort nurse half the time. Then I nursed her twice in the middle of the night, and twice this morning. After that, my boobs were so sore, I gave her a bottle of formula. We supplement every now and then anyway, but I felt so guilty for not bfing her, but my boobs just couldnt take anymore today. Has anyone else had a day like this?

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Re: Tell me I'm not a bad mommy!

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    When Jason wanted to comfort nurse too much we started giving him the pacifier in between feedings.  This way my boobs got a break and weren't too tired when it came time to feed him.

    And no, you're not a bad mommy

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    Your so not a bad mommy!!! When Sara would cluster feed like crazy sometimes I would have DH give her a bottle from my stash jsut so I could have a break-- we need it sometimes!!
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    Totally not a bad mom!  I think we need breaks every now and then just to keep our sanity!  You needed a break and not taking one would have probably been even more stressful.

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    imageVandy05:
    Your so not a bad mommy!!! When Sara would cluster feed like crazy sometimes I would have DH give her a bottle from my stash jsut so I could have a break-- we need it sometimes!!

    I do this too! I give Cole a bottle from our pumped stash in the middle of the night if he clusters too long!

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