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Venting off stress....

WearingRedWearingRed member
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Anyone else need to vent off all the stress in their live? I know I do right now.

SO here is my Vent- I hate living with my FIL, he well intentioned but just gets on my nerves! He talks about the same thing every day and think that because he is the father of two he can give me advice. I got news for you grandpa, I have 2 younger bothers, 5 younger cousins and worked in child care, your 25+ year old advice isn't so reliant any more and I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT!  Oh, and to top it off I know that he worked 18 hour days when his children were infants! So, how the H3LL do you know what A MOM needs! You were at work when she was raising your children.

Sorry he came home early today and I need to do things and feel like I can't because he is here, telling me that I need to take it easy because HIS grandbaby doesn't want to be moved around so much!

So Now its your turn Who or what is stressing you out that you need to yell at but can't! Let me know I am not alone.

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  • breazzzybreazzzy
    My vent is that my MIL is planning on visiting a few weeks after the baby is born. She seems to think we will have time to take her around to all the touristy places in Cali. Um yeah I don't think I will want to be driving to the most populated places with my newborn. Not to mention I think I would kind of like to relax a bit not entertain.
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  • kellieokkellieok
    My MIL... DH and I aren't/weren't planning on telling family that we are pg until after next Monday's appt, but I found out on Christmas, in a very embarassing way, that she told most of DH's family.... I'm already having so much anxiety because I am scared this is another missed m/c, she just added to my stress and what I didn't want to have happen...
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  • breazzzybreazzzy

    imagekellieok:
    My MIL... DH and I aren't/weren't planning on telling family that we are pg until after next Monday's appt, but I found out on Christmas, in a very embarassing way, that she told most of DH's family.... I'm already having so much anxiety because I am scared this is another missed m/c, she just added to my stress and what I didn't want to have happen...

     

    It drives me nuts when people can't keep their mouths shut. Especially since it is your news to tell not hers.

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  • colle176colle176 member

    My mom keeps telling people even though DH and I told her we aren't ready for too many people to know.  Mind you, I reminded her of this MANY times.  She's really annoying me.  Don't get me wrong, I'm glad she's happy and excited, but I feel it's our place to tell.  And yes, she was told this.  I was almost outed on facebook because she told her cousin.  My mom refuses to respect how DH and I feel.  She keeps saying that this is her first grandchild, she's excited and that I just have to get over it.  She just won't listen to me and I have no idea what else to do or say to make her understand.  I'm so frustrated with her!

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