A question for the HABies.

sam19

Why such a hate-on for Lilly? because she didn't like who she was in HAB and wanted to spend some more time with her family? What's so wrong with that?

I'm not a huge Lilly fan but I don't understand your extreme dislike. It actually seems pretty childish to me.

htomeo

No hate all love. We only spread love.

Speaking for myself, I just don't appreciate a constant picture of hate being painted. HAB is not about that. Do I get defensive when someone spreads lies. Yes. Do I get irritated when someone won't let their bitterness go, yes.

It is a subject we all have bit our tounges on.

Shlei

I just gained respect for you Sam19

nofreespeeches

speaking for MYSELF and not the rest of the habettes, it has to do with the fact that when we had our little hiccup on the board she came running to tb trying to spread and relish the dramz.

DanielsWife

htomeo:

No hate all love. We only spread love.

Speaking for myself, I just don't appreciate a constant picture of hate being painted. HAB is not about that. Do I get defensive when someone spreads lies. Yes. Do I get irritated when someone won't let their bitterness go, yes.

It is a subject we all have bit our tounges on.

Definitely this. Especially the last 2 sentences.  

DotShaw

Who?

Ellie0505

nofreespeeches:

speaking for MYSELF and not the rest of the habettes, it has to do with the fact that when we had our little hiccup on the board she came running to tb trying to spread and relish the dramz.

 

This is pretty much my beef with Lilly.  I don't like that she pretends to be innocent about the whole thing.

TiffanyHenning

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

nofreespeeches

DotShaw:

Who?

::slips dot the tongue::

~BeesBoo~

Why would you be part of a group, and you actively participate in the group, then after leaving you do a tell all on the bump calling out people for the same thing that you were doing just days before, and in some cases were the ring leader?  It just rubs the wrong way.  Some of us got close to Lilly and were surprised at what has taken place.

christin3580

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

I dont really know what happened with lilly and said HAB but This would make me sad... thats what happend to my SIL and me stupid biitch

mavilabride

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

You are saying this based on the assumption that Lilly was the AE.

The last time I checked, friends that "turn" on each other and then group together to harrass stopped in High School.

And for future reference, when you have a board that is dedicated, even just in part, to discussing another board in a negative manner you will always wind up with people that leave and start posting things on said board.

Lilly may have been the first to leave.  The AE may have been the first to post the list. But they will not be the last. BTDT

Shlei

~BeesBoo~:

Why would you be part of a group, and you actively participate in the group, then after leaving you do a tell all on the bump calling out people for the same thing that you were doing just days before, and in some cases were the ring leader?  It just rubs the wrong way.  Some of us got close to Lilly and were surprised at what has taken place.

Because some people are vindictive and will throw even the people they are close to under the tracks if they have been found or feel threatened. I wouldn't be happy either. Then again, I wouldn't put myself in this situation.

htomeo

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

You are saying this based on the assumption that Lilly was the AE.

The last time I checked, friends that "turn" on each other and then group together to harrass stopped in High School.

And for future reference, when you have a board that is dedicated, even just in part, to discussing another board in a negative manner you will always wind up with people that leave and start posting things on said board.

Lilly may have been the first to leave.  The AE may have been the first to post the list. But they will not be the last. BTDT

What leads you to believe that the "list" is the only thing referenced?

sam19

That's cool. I guess I just don't see the hate being spread. I just don't really pay that much attention to her though. I think for the most part it just looks like you guys are ganging up on her and that's not cool. I understand being hurt by her actions but I think some of you are just making the drama worse by always harping on her. Wouldn't it just be easier to ignore her? In some ways, I think you guys are just making whatever she said look to be true.

And thanks for answering without getting defensive or anything. I was afraid this post might cause some drama. I know it's none of my business but I figure if it's going to be posted on the bump then I wanted to be in the know.

DotShaw

wtf does BTDT mean?

Is it some super secret lingo from a super-super secret sub-board to the super secret other board?

 

Bitty Ditty?  

 

:: scratches head:: 

TiffanyHenning

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

You are saying this based on the assumption that Lilly was the AE.

The last time I checked, friends that "turn" on each other and then group together to harrass stopped in High School.

And for future reference, when you have a board that is dedicated, even just in part, to discussing another board in a negative manner you will always wind up with people that leave and start posting things on said board.

Lilly may have been the first to leave.  The AE may have been the first to post the list. But they will not be the last. BTDT

 

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

mavilabride

htomeo:

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

You are saying this based on the assumption that Lilly was the AE.

The last time I checked, friends that "turn" on each other and then group together to harrass stopped in High School.

And for future reference, when you have a board that is dedicated, even just in part, to discussing another board in a negative manner you will always wind up with people that leave and start posting things on said board.

Lilly may have been the first to leave.  The AE may have been the first to post the list. But they will not be the last. BTDT

What leads you to believe that the "list" is the only thing referenced?

It doesn't matter what else was being referenced.  It will happen again.

Lilly923

This is the ONLY time I will comment on this thread:

Here's what I feel like happened. There are 2 sides to every story. In this case, 25 (ish?) sides to the story. I feel like I am being accused of a lot of things that never happened. I also feel like some people are willing to point fingers and comdemn me without actually varifying any facts. If anyone wants to discuss anything about this IN PRIVATE, I will be more than willing to do so. The bottom line... people got hurt. (myself included) and that makes everyone more defensive.

I will say that Red is justified in being upset at me... I was wrong with some things that went on with her and I have apologized for it. We will not be friends again (that I forsee), but I did hurt her & I am sorry for that.

htomeo

sam19:

That's cool. I guess I just don't see the hate being spread. I just don't really pay that much attention to her though. I think for the most part it just looks like you guys are ganging up on her and that's not cool. I understand being hurt by her actions but I think some of you are just making the drama worse by always harping on her. Wouldn't it just be easier to ignore her? In some ways, I think you guys are just making whatever she said look to be true.

And thanks for answering without getting defensive or anything. I was afraid this post might cause some drama. I know it's none of my business but I figure if it's going to be posted on the bump then I wanted to be in the know.

It is only natural to be curious.

mavilabride

TiffanyHenning:

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

If you are going to bring your drama to this board, it's going to be commented on.

I'm mavilabride, in case you couldn't read the SN.

Shlei

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

If you are going to bring your drama to this board, it's going to be commented on.

I'm mavilabride, in case you couldn't read the SN.

I PPH you Mavila

TiffanyHenning

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

If you are going to bring your drama to this board, it's going to be commented on.

I'm mavilabride, in case you couldn't read the SN.

Commenting is one thing but you really seem desperate. Why is that? Why are you rushing to Lily's defense? I would do so with caution, since you don't even know the story. Lily wanted to bring it to this board. So we make the proper arrangements to accommodate her needs.

sam19

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

If you are going to bring your drama to this board, it's going to be commented on.

I'm mavilabride, in case you couldn't read the SN.

If I knew how to do the solid black heart thing, I'd totally do it now. Instead you will have to settle for this. BTW, what does BTDT mean?

mavilabride

TiffanyHenning:

Commenting is one thing but you really seem desperate. Why is that? Why are you rushing to Lily's defense? I would do so with caution, since you don't even know the story. Lily wanted to bring it to this board. So we make the proper arrangements to accommodate her needs.

Desperate would be only coming to the bump to comment on this drama.

TiffanyHenning

I can read your sn, I just don't know why it keeps appearing where it doesn't belong.

mavilabride

Sam, LOL, Been There Done That

mavilabride

Well, might as well make yourself cozy with it.

TiffanyHenning

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

Commenting is one thing but you really seem desperate. Why is that? Why are you rushing to Lily's defense? I would do so with caution, since you don't even know the story. Lily wanted to bring it to this board. So we make the proper arrangements to accommodate her needs.

Desperate would be only coming to the bump to comment on this drama.

Right. Because I am a part of a smaller board of women I am close to and prefer to talk about my child with people I trust. The drama (which involves me and my friends) was brought here, thus I am here. Now, what part do you have in it and WHY?

htomeo

mavilabride:

htomeo:

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

Imagine yourself in a friendship for nearly a year only to be turned on out of nowhere. Imagine that friend running all over spreading lies and trying to turn people on you for no reason.Imagine then trying to take said person seriously.

You are saying this based on the assumption that Lilly was the AE.

The last time I checked, friends that "turn" on each other and then group together to harrass stopped in High School.

And for future reference, when you have a board that is dedicated, even just in part, to discussing another board in a negative manner you will always wind up with people that leave and start posting things on said board.

Lilly may have been the first to leave.  The AE may have been the first to post the list. But they will not be the last. BTDT

What leads you to believe that the "list" is the only thing referenced?

It doesn't matter what else was being referenced.  It will happen again.

I think it does matter what is being referenced. Otherwise, there would not be an issue.

howa0155

mavilabride:

TiffanyHenning:

This may come as a shock to you but that is only 5% of what happened. You have no idea how things really are. Why do you care so much anyways? Who are you?

If you are going to bring your drama to this board, it's going to be commented on.

I'm mavilabride, in case you couldn't read the SN.

Oh snap!  Mav I love you!

TiffanyHenning

mavilabride:

Well, might as well make yourself cozy with it.

Well I better warn you now I sleep naked and don't like to share the covers.

mavilabride

TiffanyHenning:

mavilabride:

Well, might as well make yourself cozy with it.

Well I better warn you now I sleep naked and don't like to share the covers.

That's  ok.  I'm packing enough body heat to get me by

~BeesBoo~

Mavila - The issue is just more personal for some of the HAB's then even what is in this post (not for me personally).  There were some very hurt feelings.  That and, Lilly is no longer able to access the HAB board, so I don't know where else all this would have played out other then the bump. 

mavilabride

~BeesBoo~:

Mavila - The issue is just more personal for some of the HAB's then even what is in this post (not for me personally).  There were some very hurt feelings.  That and, Lilly is no longer able to access the HAB board, so I don't know where else all this would have played out other then the bump. 

I can respect that Bees. 

annibes

TiffanyHenning:

I can read your sn, I just don't know why it keeps appearing where it doesn't belong.

LMAO @ this comment. I wasn't going to post but I seriously love it when people tell others they don't belong on the internet!