Pregnant after a Loss

DH bought the baby presents :O)

MERRY CHRISTMAS LADIES

Dh got a few items for the baby for christmas. I know it seems silly but that meant the world to me because before now it seemed like he was guarding himself from caring about this pregnancy or believing in it.
I have been to all three doctors appointments by myself :O(
I have tried to give him his space to deal with this in his own way but I sure hope he is coming around.
Anyone else have a DH that was sluggish in the start of your pregnancy due to the previous losses?

BTW
For those who care about the details (like me) 
He got a unisex 0-3 months baby gap sleeper
Baby spoon set from Williams Sonoma
Baby multi portion freezer tray
I admit the last two sound odd but I think DH was most excited when DS started eating solids so he could get involved in feedings
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Summer 2011
Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers ~early M/C 4/09 ~ Ectopic 6/09~ BFP 11/09~

Re: DH bought the baby presents :O)

  • What a nice DH!!!
  • Aw, how sweet of your DH. My DH and I were both slow to get attached during this pg, but I came around a few weeks before he did. But once he heard the Dr say our chances of m/c were less than 1% he turned around. Day by day we started having more conversations about normal baby stuff... what to name him or her, how to decorate the nursery, etc. Inititally I gave him his space just like you're doing. Of course now he lives on cloud nine. LOL. Sounds like your DH is already coming around. Congrats.
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  • Thanks MrsTyson it is nice to hear that other husbands were slow to attach after losses, so mine is not defective :O)

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    Summer 2011
    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers ~early M/C 4/09 ~ Ectopic 6/09~ BFP 11/09~
  • That's so sweet - way to go DH!  I'm excited about those spoons and the freezer trays too!  I've been eying them!!  haha
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  • That is awesome!  I dont think my DH is comfortable enough yet to buy baby presents..  :(  he is absolutely sluggish.  He didnt feel better this time until we heard the hb..  I know how he feels I was the same way.  I think that they are just guarding themselves (just like we do) in case its another loss. 

     

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