Pregnant after a Loss

*jacquie*

How are you? Haven't seen you around :(

We ordered our dresser last night. It was expensive because we got it from the Amish store...but they have the best stuff..solid oak and metal gliders. It will take 10-12 weeks to be made. We just got a plain looking dresser like our chest in our room. Then they make a changing pad "holder" with shelves above it that sits on top of the dresser. I wasn't planning on getting anything like that, but when I saw it I thought it would be nice, then we can take it off when she is old enough and we will put a mirror on the dresser then. I know it seems petty, but we are finally moving in the direction of starting our nursery. Tonight or tomorrow I am going to get the paint for it.

 

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  • I am doing well. I ahve been super busy with the holidays and trying to get stuff done at home and the n also at work.  I would rather just bump all day and take naps but that is not going to happen. :(

    The dresser sounds nice and you will be able to use it for a very long time. I am starting to get the itch for baby shopping. I think after christmas, I might start working on that registry. Yay!!!!!

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  • Yay for registry! How exciting :) I can't look on mine until after Christmas because my mom got me something off of it. But after that, I need to reasses and clean up.
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  • I think I am going to do what you guys did and not put the bedding on it.  I really love the ones at potterybarn. I also like this but not sure it will work, especially if it is a boy.

    https://www.babysupermall.com/main/products/coc/coc7033-834.html

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  • Oh that is very cute..but maybe not for a boy. I love it though for a girl.

    Dan just got off the phone with our crop insurance man and he said that we are guaranteed a certain amount of money. I figured it up and we will only likely pay $6,000 out of our pocket for the farm this year... So much better than I was figuring. Since it is guaranteed, my dad will float us a loan for a month until the money comes in for insurance...I can almost breathe now. I would still feel better if Dan could get his crop in before our loan is due so that we didn't have to borrow money from my dad. But still..

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  • I am glad that is much better than you thought it would be. Hopefully this does releave some of the stress. Holidays have enough stress around them.

    I got a call back from the OB nurse and she said my NT results came back perfect. I did not get the exact numbers but I will probably just wait until my appointment to go over them. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Congrats on the results! That is such a relief. I am so happy for you. This whole thing seems so surreal! Is Mark excited? Dan is one of those people who has trouble getting excited, but I do expect tears when the baby is born, just like the tears he had at the big u/s (when it was more real to  him) He said he just wants to hold our little girl.

    At my appt. yesterday, they had me schedule three appts:

    1st- next 4 week appt (normal)

    2nd- rhogam and glucose 2 weeks after

    3rd- last u/s 2 weeks after

    As you can tell, by then I am on 2 week appts! I will be 32 weeks. I am in total shock. 

    My mom ran into my male OB doc (never met him with me) while she was working at the hospital. She went to see a friends daughters girls and he had just delivered them. My mom mentioned that he saw me that day and what my name was and he said how nice I was and that I was doing everything right. That feels good to have an OB that confident in me. Because I do sneak blue cheese and a cup of coffee (and lunchmeat) now and then...the list is probably longer than that too. I don't do it often, but I figure people do much worse pregnant and i am out of 1st tri.

     

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  • I have alwyas liked that elephant bedding. :)

    I was peeking at your ticker today and I was shocked. You have come so far along. VDay is right around the corner! I couldn't be happier for you and Dan.

    Way to go and get props from your OB. You are doing a wonderful job Kara. I have always been a sucker for blue cheese. Yummy!

    My male OB thinks I am nuts. Everytime I see him, I cry. He has that affect on me. He is latin  and so very sweet and calls me mama. Mark laughs at how I react towards him.

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  • I know I swear my ticker is cheating. I couldn't be that pregnant. I have wanted it for so long it doesn't seem real. I used to look at anyone past 20 weeks and think "they are so lucky to be that far" and now that is me :) And you are right on my coattails! I can't believe how far along you are. My male doc is laid back and I am more comfortable with them. I think they see so many "unfortunate" cases, that to see one who actually has a plan and wanted a baby makes them happy. When I look at the people in the waiting room, I get that impression anyway...

    Blue Cheese on a filet mignon is excellent :)  I think we are going out to eat for V-day...then the milestones fly by!

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  • Great, now I want a filet with blue cheese. Stick out tongue

    It is very unreal sometimes, especially now that I am showing. I can't help but look in the mirror and smile.

    Oh, I bought some maternity jeans from motherhood this weekend. Okay, so they fit the butt nicely but I have to keep pulling them up. They are not staying up and it is really annoying. It's like my crotch hangs low. Not cool.

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  • I have a pair of motherhood "flowy" black pants. I always pull them up. I got a pair of black Gap pants and use the motherhood ones for working at the banquet hall. I am still pulling them up..I agree on the lack of coolness.

    I look in every reflection I can just to admire my bump :) This past week I have probably felt better than I have yet. I feel like the 2nd tri feel goods are going to get cut short...3rd tri is on its way.

    You have the cutest bump forming :) It is so exciting. I thought my bump was "so obvious" at like 17 weeks lol...now I am like...twice that size. Just wait until the 30 weeks lol. 

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  • Thanks Kara! It is cute now, but I have a feeling I am going to carry this baby all over. I have been really good with eating though and really only taking in the needed additional calories. I think in about another week or so, I will really look like I have a bump and I am not just pudgy. I am so wearing nice fitted shirts to show it off. I have some of those empire waste shirts and right now, it just makes me look overweight since I am just 15 weeks. I will wait to wear those in 3rd tri.

    I still want to put you in my pocket. I love your grinch belly. lol! Seriously, you are so cute.

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