It has been a long time in the making. we had a big fight two weeks ago about how well he listens (blahblahblah), and then he texted me he was going to stay at his friends instead of coming home to resolve the issue. So, i told him not to come home at all. Then, that Sunday we talked, and I told him I wanted him to move out and I didn't think this was going to work.
We have been talking here and there, but he has been staying at a friends.
I told him yesterday that I wanted to try to make things work, and do whatever was needed. He responded that he would rather be my friend and we can't be happy together. That me asking him to leave was an irreversible mistake. Well, guess that solidifies my decision whether I made the right decision! I just wanted to make sure that I told him him I wanted to try so I never had a feeling of "We didn't try everything we could to make this work", you know?
I guess I am just ready to move on. I think I am basically grieving for the loss of every idea and notion that I had imagined. Does that make sense? The two parent family, more babies, growing old together, holidays, grandchildren, and anniversaries.....
There is more, but, alas, that isn't nestie approproved. LOL.
that is heavy..I know one day you'll look back and see how this was the best thing that ever could have happened.
I mean, there are lots of long time happily married couples out there, but there are also lots of long term miserable married couples out there- who never took the chance at finding real happiness. that would SUCK.
I really think that if you are not happy, you should figure out how to be. People who just stay together for the kids, or who just put their feelings aside and suck it up...they aren't setting a good example for their kids! That isn't a happy family!
you're going tobe super happy one day, and I hope its soon. (but not unfashionably soon.)
I hope it goes well- you guys can totally make it work out for everyone's best.
Re: ::::Waves hi & throws kisses to daytime nesties::::
who cares how everyone else is.
How are YOU?
Is that a vagina at the bottom of your siggy or WHAT??
Meh, could be better could be worse!
it is a butt passing a turd to another butt...back and forth, forever.
not a vagina, gah.
you guys make any plans?
I just see a big gaping vagina. No buttholes.
Neither one of us have filed, if that is what you mean. He has slowly started to move out. He has only slept here twice in two weeks.
omigod. you can feel free to just tell me to shut up if you don't want to talk about it- but how are you coping?
I know its probably for the best- but do you feel good about it? Or more sad?
is there anything that you guys are doing to try to work it out? Do you even WANT to work it out?
did you ever say what sparked this whole thing? or was it just a long time in the making?
I am so sorry you're going through this...
I'm with BoF on this - how are YOU doing?
Good to "see" you!
It has been a long time in the making. we had a big fight two weeks ago about how well he listens (blahblahblah), and then he texted me he was going to stay at his friends instead of coming home to resolve the issue. So, i told him not to come home at all. Then, that Sunday we talked, and I told him I wanted him to move out and I didn't think this was going to work.
We have been talking here and there, but he has been staying at a friends.
I told him yesterday that I wanted to try to make things work, and do whatever was needed. He responded that he would rather be my friend and we can't be happy together. That me asking him to leave was an irreversible mistake. Well, guess that solidifies my decision whether I made the right decision! I just wanted to make sure that I told him him I wanted to try so I never had a feeling of "We didn't try everything we could to make this work", you know?
I guess I am just ready to move on. I think I am basically grieving for the loss of every idea and notion that I had imagined. Does that make sense? The two parent family, more babies, growing old together, holidays, grandchildren, and anniversaries.....
There is more, but, alas, that isn't nestie approproved. LOL.
that is heavy..I know one day you'll look back and see how this was the best thing that ever could have happened.
I mean, there are lots of long time happily married couples out there, but there are also lots of long term miserable married couples out there- who never took the chance at finding real happiness. that would SUCK.
I really think that if you are not happy, you should figure out how to be. People who just stay together for the kids, or who just put their feelings aside and suck it up...they aren't setting a good example for their kids! That isn't a happy family!
you're going tobe super happy one day, and I hope its soon. (but not unfashionably soon.)
I hope it goes well- you guys can totally make it work out for everyone's best.
will you keep the house? how does this work?
goddamnit.it is a side view of 2 asses, with the turd in the middle.
2 buttcheeks on each side, poo in the middle.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?
I see it, but I still think it looks more like a vag then the butts... just sayin'
well, its from a Miranda July movie.
::::whispers:::: I love her.
aw, r9, ((HUGS)) girl. I've been thinking about you actually. what a tough thing to have to go through. You doing all right?
and BoF--sory dude, totaly looks like a bajayjay
hahahhahaaa!!! I love that you just said that Happ!
And R- sorry, I wasn't trying to hijack your post...I was just agreeing with you.