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No! No! No!

I just got word that we are getting a new social worker, again!

 We love our current social worker. She is so great about calling out all the BS in this case and has always kept us in the loop. She is the only one who has checked out the stories that didn't add up and is very sensitive and respectful of our role in the girls lives.

The new social worker will be writing the report for our next court date too, I asked, hoping for the best.

This is not good, not good at all.

I am even more sure that we are losing LMC now. Here come the tears.

Re: No! No! No!

  • I am so sorry! I am sure she will see how much you love this child! We are sending 'sticky child" vibes your way!!
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  • I'm so sorry.  But hang in there, maybe this social worker will be just a great as your current one.  Try not to stress too much about her/him until you meet.  ((hugs))
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  • Hopefully you will get a great SW who will keep your family intact. Is it bad to hope that LMC's dad gets hit by a bus on his skateboard?

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  • I'm so sorry. This must be incredibly stressful. I hope you find that the new SW is better than the last. I think the amount of stress you open yourself up to in this process is the truest definition of motherhood and love for your children that I have experienced in a very long time.
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  • i'm sorry hon. so many crazy changes on this rollercoaster.  i'm with the others in hoping that the new sw is just as good, if not better, than the last.
  • image ctbride08:
    i'm with the others in hoping that the new sw is just as good, if not better, than the last.
    DITTO! Hope it goes better than expected. Sorry you're having to deal with this.
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  • Ugh - so sorry about the added stress this is causing.  But hopefully the new sw will be great!
    Mrs._F
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  • ditto other posts

    I hope it all works out!

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  • Ditto and (((hugs)))
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  • Sending Awesome New Social Worker vibes your way, and wishing, as always, that there weren't so many hurdles in your path.
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