I finally noticed I could change my viewing options. It drove me crazy that posts were arranged from "original post date" and that you couldnt bump threads. I finally realize I could change it to "most recent post date" - this is sooooo much better!
Re: cant believe it took me a year to figure this out
Some ladies were talking about this yesterday. I changed mine for a little while but I like seeing all the posts when they were posted.
I think I'll use that setting for when there is a hot topic so I get updated without having to seach it
I still can't figure out how to change it...
ETA: I just found it. Apparently I never scroll down far enough...
forgive me, I've actually been working at work lately!