This is hypothetical as of now, but the work rumor mill tends to run true. So right now, rumor is, I'm getting moved into a different department, one that would cause me to work major overtime, possibly 12-14 hour days, 5 days a week. While the money would be nice, the hours are not compatible with my family. DH is already going to be working overtime at his new job, and I was supposed to pick up the slack with Donovan.
Unfortunently, with my company, if you are asked to change departments, they only give you two options. 1)go to the new department. 2) quit.
I can't quit, our healthcare is under my plan and we don't know quite how much money DH will be making at his new job. BUT I can't work 12-14 hour days!
What do I do?
Re: Difficult work dilema
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Wow, tough one. Love their flexibility! Can you take it and then apply for an internal transfer to something else you'd like to do better? You could also take it and have a heart to heart with your manager that your family situation is not allowing you the OT required
Another thought: Could the extra money help you look for a new provider that would work better hours? We have to pay more but found a place that is open 7 to 6:30 because I travel a lot and we have to have some flexibility with DH's schedule.
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