Never fails, my DH's father and wife always call up the day they want to visit. Just received a phone call asking to come over and watch a video they bought with the boys either tonight or Sunday night. They only visit on their terms, meaning when it is best for them and then complain that the boys do not come to them. I also LOVE getting parenting advice from a women who never had her own children and a FIL who had no role in raising his son . . . They didn't speak for 15 years before my oldest was born. Now my DH gets to entertain them tonight while I am out!