With ds I could barely contain my excitement. Yet with this one we have no plans to tell. I will be 7 weeks on wed and have an u/s. I think it will be hard to keep it in onThanksgiving. My sil lost her babies after a brief stay in the nicu and her due date is approaching so I know we want to allow that to pass before telling them. Then we don't feel right telling one family and not the other. For some reason it doesn't seem as hard to keep in. Then I worry that maybe my mind is telling me not to tell people because something is wrong! I need wed to come really fast! May eb we will tell at 8 or 9 weeks? Last time we told family at 5 weeks
Re: telling with 2nd pregnancy