As much as dd's dad pisses me off

belle204

he can still be a pretty nice guy. we used to be really good friends before i got pregnant and i still find myself talking to him when i'm really upset sometimes. i don't know why but he still has the ability to calm me down and make me feel better. we have a very odd relationship and it's hard to explain it to people. basically, we either hate each other or we're peachy ... depends on the day of the week. anyone else still talk to dc's dad or have an "interesting" relationship? i'm pretty sure ours would be deemed unhealthy.

krazikat99

I am still married to my DD father, but we are separated. I miss our good times and sometimes wish we could work things out. But I guess there is a reason we are separated. I miss being a family together.

GettinNervous

We are divorced, and we get along fine. Sometimes we go places together with the kids. People think it's weird, but I don't. I don't have to answer to a boyfriend or anybody, so I do whatever benefits my kids. It's totally platonic, and neither one of us has any interest in getting back together.

nire99

My soon-to-be ex-husband is in prison for the next nine years.  I guess you could call that "interesting." I go back and forth on a daily basis in regards to what kind of relationship I think we should have with him.  Right now we have no contact and I don't see that changing in the near future.

haleyw458

Ours is a very odd relationship. A year after we started dating, his grandparents (he lived with them because his mom decided to move off with her new bf and abandon all 6 kids) decided to move, so my parents asked him to move in with us. He lived there for almost 3 years when we both moved off to college. I found out I was pregnant about a month later. We got along GREAT (during pregnancy) until about 30 weeks when I felt too fat to go out, and he wanted to party all of the time still. So we fought about him going out constantly. Even the night I went into the hospital after I fell, I had to call him a million times, and some of his friends, to tell him to meet me at the emergency room.

We ended up breaking up and I moved back with my parents when DS was 3 months old. We hardly even talked anymore. He was rarely home and I just couldn't take it. I found him texting another girl, and being out with her, and one of his guy friends, until 5:30 in the morning, while I was home alone because DS was staying the night with my parents.

Since he is like family to everyone, and really doesn't have anywhere else to go, he is staying with my family for thanksgiving and christmas. When he stays the night (he lives an hour away) he stays at our house. We either get along very great, or we absolutely hate eachother. This can change day to day. We never fought in front of DS though. That was pretty much the only thing we agreed on.