I need

buckin

to work out and chill but I'm having a really shitastic night. A bad moment today followed by the M/C hospital bill that reduced me to a puddle on the floor.

FML today.

MrsMcC091909

*hugs*

ToshaGirl

::throws arms around buckin::

 

fabbate13

Sorry.... *hugs*

buckin

Seriously, how do people deal with this? How do people watch their loved ones die and then immediately get hit with hospital bills and insurance crap that is confusing and painful?

It costs more After insurance to take my dead child then give live birth and stay over night? WTF

 

crownedbee

I was going to go home tomorrow night and drink a bottle of wine, but I'd be more than happy to bring that wine to your house if you'd like the company.  I might even help you taste test what you're baking.

buckin

HA..I may take you up on that! Seriously though, my door is always open but don't feel you have to come to cheer me up if you are looking forward to a relaxing night. I promise I'll be fine.

I'm pulling out of it now, it just hit me like a ton of bricks.

crownedbee

Oh heavens no.  I'm coming to have a pity party for BOTH of us.

In all seriousness, I think the last thing you need is to be at home alone tomorrow (or really any time you're feeling like this) because if you're anything like me--which I think we have determined you are--you'll sit and think about it.  That doesn't help.  You need something to take your mind off of everything, or at least someone there to talk to who wont talk back except to tell you everything's going to be ok. And you've gotta be out of your mind if you think I wouldn't have a relaxing night with wine at your house.

And my door's always open too (except for my dumbass neighbor) so if you can put off the baking and you'd rather not be at home, I have wine glasses too. And, well, for that matter I have an oven and a stand mixer. *giggle*

buckin

Giggles. Unfortunately I can't put off the baking. It's for Jen's party...which by the way, you are welcome to go to. She said I could invite anyone. I can't remember if I told you about it or not? The purse party thing?

crownedbee

Oh, I didn't know about it. You may have told me, but I don't remember.  Which Jen? J&T?  And what time?

I promised my mom a couple weeks ago that I would take pictures of her and her man on Saturday, but I'm gonna do it in the morning--I assume there wouldn't be a party with baked goods in the morning.  That's just wrong.

buckin

Nope. Jen that used to work with me. It's at 2 in Greensboro off Battleground.

Hang on..I'll pm you.