I need your thoughts on this situation:
B and I have been talking about me going to work full time and having him at home with M and then he would get a p/t job. There is an awesome position available fairly locally that I would be great at, but I would have to quit the dance studio.
AAH! This is just hard!
Re: Jen!
Sorry it took so long I was packing for MX. Ugh. But here is what I think of the situation :-)
Apply for the position. B can always do freelance graphic design stuff did he check out mediabistro.com. If not tell him to start an account, build a portfolio and then he can work from home and watch M. That sounds soooo easy but I know it is a hard decision. Before you do anything try living off your salary (or what it would be if you got the new job-compensated by B's income to make up the difference if there is any) for a month or two and see what you have to cut out or if it is possible. Is there any way you could teach a night dance class like 1 or 2 a week just so you can still have that outlet?
And I agree with the pregnancy being FOR.EV.ER!