1st Trimester

DH will be out of town for 1st appointment

I'm a little sad b/c DH had to go on a last minute business trip to Europe and he is going to miss my first appointment tomorrow. I was hoping that once he saw the heartbeat, it would be a little more real for him. He's pretty disappointed, too. I had just dreamed of sharing that special moment together where we both see the heart beat on the ultrasound. But, I am excited to see the baby! I just hope everything goes okay tomorrow. I would be a total wreck if I get bad news and DH is out of town. 

Re: DH will be out of town for 1st appointment

  • Can your Dr record it to a dvd? That way your DH could see it when he gets back.
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  • I don't know. I didn't know that they could do that. Thanks for the idea!
  • that does suck.  You'll get pics though to show him.  Don't go on too much about it to him, he probably feels really crappy about it.

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  • Can you take a pic of the u/s screen with your phone and text it to him? Enjoy your first appt!
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    I don't know. I didn't know that they could do that. Thanks for the idea!

    When I called this am to make my 1st appt the receptionist said I could bring in a dvd-r and they can record it.  Awesome.

    I'd call your dr's office to see if they can. 

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  • They should be able to record it!!!  I would call in the morning to see if you could bring a dvd or if you can buy one from them.  Even if they don't usually do it on 1st appts....maybe they will do it for you based on the circumstances.
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  • My DH didn't come to most of my appointments last pregnancy and didn't come to my first with this one either.  He's not missing a whole lot, even if you do have the ultrasound.
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  • Are you sure they will even do an ultrasound so early?
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