DH says: "We need to be patient" (vent mentioned)

MollyK0222

Really?!?

This is what he said to me this morning when I told him my temp was going down.  Ugh.  Why does it seem like the men aren't as invested in getting pregnant?  What is the deal? 

far_more_than_rubies

I hear ya on that----- or, why does it seem like my friends' DHs are way more interested than mine?

bebeblues

Dh is reallly wanting to get a bfp too, but he's much more laid back about it when I see the bfn every month. He says, "It'll happen when it happens, stop putting so much into it"-----and I don't temp yet!!! He's convinced that I'm stressing myself out and causing the freak cycles and that if I'd just stop using opts and stop thinking about it, we'd get ku again......

Ah----can't live w/them, can't live w/o them.....

nomadicprincess

My DH would say something like that to make me feel better.  It is possible your DH feels powerless and this is the best he can do.  It doesn't mean he's not invested.

CLAYLIOVER

far_more_than_rubies:

I hear ya on that----- or, why does it seem like my friends' DHs are way more interested than mine?

this. exactly this.

Ginaincali

my husband told me that the other day too as I was crying at 5am over a BFN.  I don't even know what patience is anymore.  I mean I know this was our first month trying, but I have been very patient...or as much as I could be throughout this entire process!

kshields104

I hear ya, DH is upset about what happened to us, but is like it's not our time!! Really, I want it to be my time!

cintim

bebeblues:

Dh is reallly wanting to get a bfp too, but he's much more laid back about it when I see the bfn every month. He says, "It'll happen when it happens, stop putting so much into it"-----and I don't temp yet!!! He's convinced that I'm stressing myself out and causing the freak cycles and that if I'd just stop using opts and stop thinking about it, we'd get ku again......

Ah----can't live w/them, can't live w/o them.....

Are we married to the same man???? I get the it'll happen when it's supposed to from him all the time. He's not worried at all.

Jmendez83

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--> Dh is reallly wanting to get a bfp too, but he's much more laid back about it when I see the bfn every month. He says, "It'll happen when it happens, stop putting so much into it"-----and I don't temp yet!!! He's convinced that I'm stressing myself out and causing the freak cycles and that if I'd just stop using opts and stop thinking about it, we'd get ku again...... Ah----can't live w/them, can't live w/o them.....

 

I agree....my DH is the same way but now we're just waiting on 2 more AF before we can try again...since we're still considered newly weds, we're enjoying are married life. We're in the process of moving into a new place; so thats where our focus is at right now!!!