TTC after 35

Beta results

Big fat negative!!  I am so disappointed.  The embryologist I talked to said that even though it was right to go ahead with the transfer, he didn't feel the blastocysts had expanded enough.  I thought when I was comparing them to pics online that they didn't have the look they should.  I guess they just never know what will happen once they transfer them, but I do wonder why they chose the blasts of lesser quality instead of 2 of the 3 which were better.  SO, now I'm going to wait again for AF & then start the whole process over again.  Maybe we'll be able to transfer before the holidays. If I do my calculations correctly, it should be the week before Christmas.  I'm so tired of the disappointments.  When can I post my BFP??!! 

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Re: Beta results

  • I'm so sorry - hang in there
  • Oh vet..this makes me soo sad for you. I was so hopeful for you. Hang in there as Dina said. What a tough day for you!

    <<HUGS and HUGS>>

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  • I'm so sorry...  I hoped for good news for you.  {{{Hugs}}}
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  • I'm soooooooooooo sorry. Left Hug

     

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  • I have thought about you all day, I am so sorry. ((((hugs))))
    1 ectopic 3 m/c's prior to 5/05 Un-freaking-explained IF 5/05 IVF, BFN 9/05 FET 3d5e, BFP = Beautiful Baby Girl (lucky pg #5) 8/08 Fet 3d5e, cp 12/08 IVF with PGD, transfer 3, BFN 5/09 FET transfer 4, BFN Hail Mary IUI with Follistim 9/11 BFP; 9/22 confirmed tubal/MTX 4/10 FET 3d5e, BFP!!!! m/c 5/26/10 1 year break and yet another m/c 5/11 FET #5 initial beat 121, second beta 7 Lap and removal of L tube and very mild endo 7/11 Suprise BFP 12/11 & m/c @ 8 wks. After 11 losses and one beautiful miracle our journey is over, we are thankful and at peace.
  • I'm so sorry to hear this.  I hope that you'll have better news the next time around and end up with a wonderful Christmas present.
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  • Oh, no!  That totally stinks.  So disappointing, but hopefully the next time will be the charm.  {{hugs}}
     
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  • UGH.  I am so sorry.  One day soon you will post your BFP.  I just know it!
  • I am so sorry (((HUGS)))

  • I'm sorry...I was so hopeful for you! Don't pay too much attention to what the thawed blasts look like.  When I had my FET done I asked the nurse why the photo of mine looked different than the blasts they had on the wall and she told me it is because when they freeze them they have to dehydrate the large center of them and then when they thaw them is when they expand.  So the frozen blasts don't look like the fresh blasts...hope that made sense.  You could drive yourself crazy with all the scenarios...I'll just keep the hope alive for your Christmas BFP :)

    ((hugs)))

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  • I am so sorry, honey. 
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  • Oh Vet-tech I am so sorry to hear this.  Hang in there and all you can do is keep trying.  Left Hug Hugs.
  • I am soooooo sorry.  <<Hugs>>  It is definitely your turn to post a BFP.  I will looking for it around Christmas. 
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  • I'm so sorry to hear your news. 
  • I'm so sorry. I really hope you get your bfp soon.

    {{hugs}}

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  • coming to check on you from IF.  I am so sorry!  I am hoping that with the better quality blasts you get your BFP!  You have been through so much, it is your turn!
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  • Hugs.. I wish I could sprinkly you with BFP dust.
  • I am so sorry! I hope that this next transfer ends up being the best Christmas gift you could ever get. ((Hugs))
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  • Oh honey, Im  so sorry.  BFNs suck.  Please try to take care of yourself.
  • Honey, I am so sorry to hear this. ((hugs)) Ihope you get your BFP wish very soon.
  • I am sooooooo sorry. It is so diffiicult to face those disappointments :( I really hope you can get back to it before the holidays as you said, and that this next one will be the one!

    ((hugs)))

  • I'm so sorry!!!!  (hugs) to you!
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