Wow-I hope my co-worker is pregnant.

M0815

Is that strange?  She is a good friend, we got married 2 weeks apart, and her menstrual cycle is in my calendar and I got an alert that says: "Lori's Cycle-6 days over due" so I asked her and she is late but she said she'll test later.  I actually hope that she is!!  I felt myself getting excited at the thought of her being pregnant and wanting to see her go through the process!  It's cool. 

I just thought I'd share because my miscarriage was probably a long time ago compared to most of you and it really does get better.  It doesn't hurt with that kind of intensity forever.

cintim

That's a good friend!

You're right, my loss was almost 2 years ago and it does get easier with time. Though, sometimes, depending on who it is that gets pregnant, it bothers me.

CarrieLeigh84

How on earth hasn't she tested yet??? I'd be peeing on things left right and centre.

 

My loss was awhile ago too.. still hurts like a S.O.B, but somewhat better.

suntoto@gmail.com

M0815:

I just thought I'd share because my miscarriage was probably a long time ago compared to most of you and it really does get better.  It doesn't hurt with that kind of intensity forever.

It's a wonderful thing to share.  BTW, my M/C was longer ago (bad grammar sorry) than yours!   Your still a newb to me...

Luv you, M0815!

Ehoff33

cintim:

That's a good friend!

You're right, my loss was almost 2 years ago and it does get easier with time. Though, sometimes, depending on who it is that gets pregnant, it bothers me.

yup, it has only been a couple months for me and it has gotten better...and some people I am really excited for and others I think would bother me even if I didn't go through a loss.... 

momagain2009

You're very positive!  I'm very happy for people when they announce they're pregnant....but it depends on who it is.  And I love babies, so much that I want one myself!

I can't hate the fertiles because they're fertile!  It's not their fault my eggs belong in a retirement home.

ColindaP

I must know - why on earth is her cycle in your calendar?!

Pixie21

CarrieLeigh84:

How on earth hasn't she tested yet??? I'd be peeing on things left right and centre.

 This.  I wouldn't be able to wait to POAS.  You are a good friend

shall923

That is nice of you. It does make me feel better to know one day it won't hurt as much to see other people pregnant.

hopingwaiting

ColindaP:

I must know - why on earth is her cycle in your calendar?!

This.

sydney0928

M0815:

 

I just thought I'd share because my miscarriage was probably a long time ago compared to most of you and it really does get better.  It doesn't hurt with that kind of intensity forever.

Thanks for that. It's good to hear.

MollyK0222

My m/c wasn't long ago and I don't have a hard time learning that people are pg or being around pg friends.  I understand why people do, but I don't.

Maybe it's b/c I already have a DD, so I'm not waiting to be a mom.  I'm not trying to minimize my loss, but that's how I feel.  (not trying to open up that can of worms again...)

hbkises

CarrieLeigh84:

How on earth hasn't she tested yet??? I'd be peeing on things left right and centre. 

  this and I think it's so awesome that you're so excited for her!! 

M0815

hopingwaiting:

ColindaP:

I must know - why on earth is her cycle in your calendar?!

This.

Because she never knew anything about her cycles and it was pissing me off.  She always said "am I late?" I don't even know when I'm due. I wanted to punch her.

rjl07

That cracks me up that you track her cycle.  You are really a great friend.  I'm trying to learn from your positive attitude - I'm getting there.

KelzinBoston

MollyK0222:

My m/c wasn't long ago and I don't have a hard time learning that people are pg or being around pg friends.  I understand why people do, but I don't.

Maybe it's b/c I already have a DD, so I'm not waiting to be a mom.  I'm not trying to minimize my loss, but that's how I feel.  (not trying to open up that can of worms again...)

I feel this way too.  I am genuinely happy anytime someone gets to become a mom who wants to be!  Pregnant bellies don't even bother me.

kshields104

Thanks for sharing with us that it gets better.  RIght now, I would never tell my pregnant friends, I am thrilled for them, but at the same time I keep asking why did I miscarry??