When I was 9 weeks pregnant, we found out I was having twins. 2 weeks later, we found out I had lost one of them. As overwhelming as it had been to think about double of everything, we wanted both of them so much. I was of course very upset initially, but I had been doing fine and hadn't cried in probably 6 weeks.
That is until Thursday when I saw the wife of one of my coworkers. She's having boy/girl twins, and her due date is the exact same as mine (she will obviously have her babies before me, but we are at the same point in our pregnancies). I couldn't help but think about how that was supposed to be me. I've been dwelling on it ever since and just had a little breakdown. Of course I'm happy to have even one healthy baby on the way, but I keep thinking about the one I lost too.
DH is gone right now, so I'm just sitting here by myself crying and staring at my one ultrasound picture that is proof that at one point I had two LOs on the way. I hate to sound needy, espeically since I know people have suffered much worse losses, but I really could use a couple words of encouragement/sympathy right now.
Re: Having a moment :(