Like when their husband acts like a wonderful caring father during the day, but as soon as it approaches bedtime and he gets tired his patience goes out the window and he acts as if the babies cry just to try to ruin his life as opposed to being logical and realizing that babies get fussy sometimes?
Or when the in-laws come over to help out while his wife is at a funeral and as soon as she get home he goes to bed, leaving her to handle bedtime on her own with a screaming baby and his parents looking at her like she's clueless?
Or when he gets irritated b/c his wife suggests that he try to feed DD again instead of putting her to sleep since it's been three hours since she ate and she'll likely just wake up again soon? Because God forbid the wife make a suggestion, not like she's with the babies 24/7. Oh, and of course that's what happened so guess who's up.
And yes, you have to go to work every morning, you need your sleep. But in case you haven't noticed, taking care of two babies all day isn't exactly a stroll in the park. Not sure why you think anyone should function on an hour of sleep a night, let alone the person in charge of raising your kids.
Ok, vent over. Feel free to add your vents, it feels good to get it out.
About me 2007: Started TTC. 2008: OB prescribed clomid, went to RE and was Dx with PCOS. 2009: IUI #1 w/follitsim and trigger = BFP. B/G Twins born at 33 weeks. 2012: TTC #3, Round 2 of Letrozole w/TI = BFP, missed m/c at 8 1/2 wks. Currently on the bench as we make plans for a new home. Anxious to start TTC #3 within the next year!