This might be personal, but I have no one lese to talk to about this. Did anyone else have a hard time having sex with dh after miscarriage? I don't me physical problems...I mean not being in the mood, not wanting to etc.?
I am having a really hard time with this. I don't know why. It has nothign to do with ttc. We have decided to hold off on that and not ttc in the next few months. I just don't know how to get past this or even what my issue is with it.
Anyone else have this problem?
Re: Anyone else have this problem?
I think it is perfectly natural. After our first loss, I cried the first couple of times after we had sex. I don't know what it was, it just hit me emotionally. But it did get better as time went on. I expect it will be similar this time. Be patient with yourself, you have been through so much emotionally and physically, and that all comes into play with sex. Just talk it out with your DH, and it will eventually be normal again.
Good luck.
With us we were just seriously afraid of getting pregnant again. For every month since we got married in January I have either been pregnant (got pregnant right away) or recovering from mc.
I think the moodswings are natural. It takes a while for everything to balance itself out. With sex even if you are not in the mood, once you start doing it again it will all come back to you eventually.