what changed your mind? (especially if you changed your mind ~35)
I never felt like I wanted kids, but over the past 12-18 months, I've had flashes otherwise. However, I really don't know what I want. I have been obsessed with trying to make a final decision (I am 39) the past couple of weeks, and I am stressed and strung out.
DH's experience with his daughter (she is now 21) has been nothing but a nightmare and heartbreak. He said the only way he will risk going through this again is if I am 100% sure. He would probably agree if I could say a majority of me was sure.
My biggest fear is that I will be childless and full of regret in 5 years. (the full of regret part).