I had a couple of these dreams. In only one of them could I clearly see the child and he spoke to me. It was undeniably Holden at around age 5. Very freaky. I ddin't realize then but the picture I saw stuck in my head. Tall, skinny, BR, curly brown hair and big eyes.
I had dreams like these before we adopted our daughter. They always gave me a sense of peace. I had 3 of them and in all of them my grandma was with me (she passed away 10 years ago). The first, was a little girl, the second was a boy and the third was a little girl. Right before our failed match called to say she was backing out, my grandma came to me in a dream and said that "everything was going to be ok."
If you can, try and write down the dreams you have regarding your child/children. I think that you will be able to look back at a later date and see some similarities between your dreams and reality.
Re: Weird dream
I had dreams like these before we adopted our daughter. They always gave me a sense of peace. I had 3 of them and in all of them my grandma was with me (she passed away 10 years ago). The first, was a little girl, the second was a boy and the third was a little girl. Right before our failed match called to say she was backing out, my grandma came to me in a dream and said that "everything was going to be ok."
If you can, try and write down the dreams you have regarding your child/children. I think that you will be able to look back at a later date and see some similarities between your dreams and reality.
I have them too. They make me so excited!!