My husband and I are in college and live in a different state than my parents and all my friends from back home. I'll be going to visit at the end of November and I would really like a baby shower when I am with all my friends- but my mom is discouraging it back home because she thinks it will be too early. I will be 21 weeks along. But it is my only visit home before the baby.
One of my ideas was to just have a girls night and invite my friends out for dinner or ice cream and not worry about a typical baby shower or should I talk to my mom about it and explain that I would really like that chance with my friends even if it is early?
Re: How to handle this
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My mom is giving me my shower the weekend after Thanksgiving. It is the only time I will be in town until after LO is born. I will only be about 22-23 weeks.
That being said. You cannot force someone to give you a shower and you cannot throw your own so unless someone offers to give you a shower you are out of luck. Asking your mom would be VERY tacky.
Maybe they are already surprising you with one. Either way it's in bad taste to ask for a shower. If somoneone offers than it's fine to throw suggestions out about what you want. I would think though that because you are visiting they might have something planned but you just don't know it.