DH just got a gig with a rock band. In February, he is going to drive a tour bus for a band - he'll go cross country and he estimates that he'll be gone for 2-3 months (depending on which dates get confirmed for the tour). It's a big deal for the band, and DH will get to meet a ton of musicians he is really into. But we are TTC. This could be a major benefit to us financially - but I dunno if I want to be pregnant and home alone.
Would you wait?
Re: DH might be gone for months... should we stop TTC?
I wouldn't wait, personally. But my DH is frequently away for months at a time so I'm used to it. Plus, you never know when you might get PG or not.
Are your parents close by, or some close friends, if you were to get PG before he left? I'm sure they'd be willing to lend their support...
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Thanks! I'm sure a lot of women deal with this - especially those who have husbands in the military. It's a huge sacrifice.
I don't have a lot of close friends but my family is fairly close by... you're right - I'll have their support.
I'm just a big baby.