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nessamestreet

I just dont want the whole thing out there you know! Thanks for all the responses. We have some work to do and I will be working on it. As far as the moving far away DH brought that up he wants to move from her but really the whole issuse with that is we dont have the money for it. We want to move to NC and we cant because we dont have the money for it!! You girls are great and thanks for not making me feel like a piece of Sh*t. I have been feeling like crap and really almost thought at one point maybe I am a bad mom. I know I am not and now that I have seeked help with a therapist I have been doing much better!!

isabella22

More hugs for you.  I cannot even imagine...

lissaholly

I read your post and I am so sorry you had to go thru that.  As a positive note though, you can rest assured that you are a good mom- as was determined by a professional, unbiased expert on the subject!

grja

I cannot even imagine what you're going through. We had a situation with our old daycare a while back and DCF had to get involved. By law, part of the investigation involved putting *us* through the ringer. I remember how awful it was. I remember being SO paranoid with everything I did, in stores, in parking lots, feeling like I was being watched or stalked. I was afraid that if my kid was crying that someone was watching and seeing why or what i was doing right and wrong. I thought I was losing my mind. I cannot even begin to imagine how i would have dealt had *I* been the target of the investigation.

Hang in there, and I hope it gets easier for you