Guilt both ways

Rahknight

So I'm feeling bad that my son Tank is still a baby but he isnt the baby...

and I feel bad I'm not cuddling with my daughter as much as I did with Tank b/c I'm spending time with him AND her.

tell me i'll feel bettr about it soon...

krub

The best thing I did to ease that guilt was to put the baby in a sling or carrier.  She was happy as a clam in there being "held" by mommy and my toddler completely forgot she was there b/c I was able to focus on him.  I'd take him to the mall or the park to play and he was SO happy ... and so was she!